ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!

Yes…I’m being for real~ Mr. Green & I broke up {like 2 months ago}. However~ he did a P*$$* way. He just up & left…that rite. He packed his ish & left.

Now I know what ur thinkin~ Didn’t I see it coming? HECK NO! Everything was fine. We went to the beach for my birthday & everything was fine. .

The days before he left….everything was fine…..NOW here’s the story…… so he told me he was goin to Texas to go visit some family. He was only supposed to be gone for like a wk. Well needless to say---a couple of day past~ & still no him. After talking & spending time with his family…still notHING DIFFERENT

---So I just sucked it up as an “L”. I will be honest-------<<-It hurts…a lot…See ya girl invested A Lot into this RELationshIp….But His lost ----Not MINE…..I heard this song on the Radio & can’t get it out my MIND----

“How can I love somebody else

If I can't love myself enough to know

When it's time,

Time to let go

Sing

All I really want

is to be happy

And to find a love that's mine

It would be so sweet”
-Mary J. Blige “Be Happy”

I'M B>A>C>K!!!!

I KNOW...I KNOW... I HAVE BEEN SLACKING...I WAS EXTREMELY BUSY WITH SCHOOL... I'M BACK....I CAN'T BELIEVE I HAVE HAD OVER 10,000 HITS.....WOW....THANKZ & KEEP READING....

OH--YEA---UPDATEZ R SURE TO COME>>>HERE IS A fEW Brief ones

1) ME & trey-THe BREAK-Up....

2) Graduation---May 8th, 2010

3) The NEW ME!!!!-

Stay turn for many more....

Yours TRUleY

Ride or Die chick versus Wifey

Definitions of Ride or Die Chick: (courtesy of Urbandictionary.com)

1) chick that ain't afraid to be down with her man she'll do anything her man
needs her to do.
2) 'ride or die chick' refers to someone who (normally a
girl, hence the word chick) is down for everything & anything. Basically
down for both the bad and the good.
3) a girl who is down for her man in any situation. a girl who's not afraid of throwin down side by side with her man, even if she's the only female. she's the girl who rides in tha passenger seat with tea heat ready on her lap & knows all the targets. a ride or die chick cooks for, cleans for, and entertains her man by any means necessary.

So last night me and my Honey were having a convo. I was telling him about how when fights break out in the club, I go the other way. My reason is because 1) Usually when ppl fight, either them or their homeboy is coming back with a gun, 2) the innocent bystander ppl usually get the most hurt; and 3) When I was at the club, chill laxing & minding my own business, these dues started fighting, I was trying get out of the way & I got caught in the mace spray cuz all the dumb ppl were trying to watch.

ANYWHO~ I told Trey that if he ever got in a fight, at the club, I would met him outside. I already know they are going to take him outside. I also know he can handle his own. He starts to get mad & says:
“ I can’t believe you would jump. Your suppose to be my ride or die chick”.
“ Cleary I told you from the Beginning I was not your Ride or die Chick”.
“ Well I thought by now, things would be different, if a girl tried to fight you, I would jump in”.

So after researching and finding the definitions of “Ride or Die Chick”, I have decided that if being a “RIDE OR DIE CHICK” means getting a record, facing charges and all that other stuff, I guess I will never be his Ride or Die Chick.
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However, I will be his FAITHFUL, COMMITTED “Wifey”

Defintions of Wifey (courtesy of Urbandictionary.com)

1) REAL Lady, Not your only but your favorite, different from them hood rat chicks. Sexy in everyway possible, when she smiles it's sexy, even when she's mad at you it's sexy.
2) A woman that you treat right, respect and feel good having her as your girl.
3) Wifey is the only one that is irreplaceable.. She is the girl that the guy loves and will always love, and he never wants to see her with another man.. But.. He will cheat on her with Boo, Bitches, and Ho's until he is mature enough to realize that if he loses Wifey he would be screwed, and NEVER be happy again..
4) WIFEY (why-fee) n - A female entitled to call his phone any time of the day or night, make herself at home at his home, occupy his free time, keep him out of trouble, defend him at all times even when he's not around! (and vice versa), make sure he's happy (because he does the same for her), have all of his attention. TRANSLATION>>> The one that ALL the girls love to HATE!!
5) a man's one and only. always real never shady. down ta ride for life.. never hesitates to do for her man (hubby).. not like ya typical female/girlfriend.. she sophisticated yet freaky..

There are pages and pages full of definitions. Therefore…me & Trey will be having another convo later!

The Clair Huxtable Way

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"Pretty women wonder where my secret liesI'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size But when I start to tell them They think I'm telling lies.

I say, It's in the reach of my arms The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips.

I'm a woman Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman, That's me..."
-Dr. Maya Angelou

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When God decided to make Eve, I wonder what his expectation for ALL women were. I think about my life & the different type of women I have encounter. I have met the “I can do bad all by myself” type to “ I rather put up with his baggage then be left alone” type. I wonder “Why do WE women (& just not black women) do the things we do?”

In my 21 years of life, I am starting to become & develop into the type of woman that I want to become. I’m preparing myself to be the type of woman who can have a family as well as a successful job. My role model is Clair Huxtable. Although a fictional character, there is a lot women can learn from her. Clair balanced the family life as well as the career without losing a sense of self. In the year 2009, I know women who feel like you have to pick either Family life or Career. They feel as if you become involve with the domestic responsibilities then you have “sold out” or you “d**K chasing”. I feel like what’s wrong with wanting to be a wife or even girlfriend who cooks & cleans? Since beginning to date my Honey, it has become a pleasure to cook for him. I have been able to show my family (who says I can’t cook) that I really can. I have learned how to make different types of things from pork chop to lasagna. I enjoy looking at his face when he realizes I have cooked his favorite dish. I have learned more about him through me cooking for him then I know about people I’ve known for years. Does this make me a sell out? I enjoy cooking. Don’t get it twisted, I enjoyed cooking before I met him, but I did not have anyone to cook for, so I just didn’t. I don’t mind cooking for my man because I know after a long day at work, a home cooked meal is what anyone wants…..But not get confused~ We shared the domestic responsibilities. I cook, he takes out the trash. I wash, he folds. Some women would say that I & other like me, have “played” ourselves for our men. I say it the Clair Huxtable way.

& Just like Clair, I’m learning the position of my career in my life. I am less than 11 months from GRADUATION & I am thinking about my career. Last summer I was blessed with the opportunity to become employed at my current job. I do not plan on leaving. The pay is wonderful & the work atmosphere is pleasant. Since I am way from home, the people at my job have become another family. I have been able to come in contact with some of the most interesting as well as informational people that I know. I also have goals for my career. I may be in an entry level position now, but I have goals of moving up. I know it is some women that are like “Heck ya~ You go girl” Get that money!

But what is sooooooo wrong with having a “FAMILY & GETTING THAT MONEY?”

The LATE NIGHT PHONE CALL

"The Late Night Phone Call"

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Imagine>>> It’s about 2:30-3 o’clock in the morning. You’re in bed laying next to your significant other & their phone rings. They pick up & the person on the other end is not a family member>>> what do you do?

OPTIONS
A) Don’t trip because they are with you and not them
B) Wait to see if he/she leaves the room to continue the convo
C) ACT a DARN FOOL!

I really want some opinions on this.......

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WHAT the F*$K Was BET THINKIN!!

Ok...What the F#$K was BET thinkin wit this AWARD SHOW. I understand you all did your best to make a tribute (a wonderful tribute I am add) to the Great Late Michael Jackson...but come on....Here is my list of the HIGH'S & lows of the BET 09 Award Show





Highs


1) THE GREAT LATE MR. Michael Joseph Jackson tribute--- I was pleased with the tribute to MJ. It seemed everyone tried their best to incorprate him in some way.





2) The Female Performances- I was extremely pleased with all the female performances. They each choose songs that fit the occiasion. It was really Classy.





3) Jamie Foxx- I would like to give him a big round of applause. I could not stop laughing at everything he did. He was an wonderful host. I was shocked when he was also singing (we will get to that later). Trey & I busted out laughing when he was doin the moonwalk because he tripped but covered it up well





4) Sheneneh & Wanda Movie-Again Pure laughter from 2 of the most talented ppl I know. Trey & I could not stop laughing at the Movie. If it went into a real movie-I think everyone would go see it





5) Tyrese, Johnny Gill & Trey Songz performance for The O'Jays- I was so blown away.. Great job fellows





6) Keith Sweat- I was SOOOOOOOOOO Shocked to see Keith Sweat! I had to call my mother...He too knew the right things to sing





7) Last but not Least-THE O'JAYS~ Now for these Men to be "late in age" I must say they really performed. Unlike some others (keep reading) The O'Jays knew there Strenghts & Played them WELL! They sung songs that everyone could relate to & sung them well. Their outfits were on point. They had on nice summer colors. Their speech was GREAT & ENTERTAINING! When they started sing...even Trey started singing to me...



8888888AND FOR THE low's***********************************

1) NEW EDITION OPENING~ Ok who in the WORLD let them OPEN? They way they performed I would not let them open a can for me. My Honey refer's to them as OLD EDITION! WE both agreed they should be in the audience looking.... They messed up the SONG! & THESE SOLO's OMG~ They need to sing SO LOW NO ONE COULD HEAR THEM! They seem like they were all over the place. Not to leave out how they ALL SOUND like THEY WAS OUT OF BREATH! They just kept making me MAD! I was soooooooo HAPPY THEIR PERFOMANCE HAD ENDED! PLEASE OLD EDITION DO LIKE MC HAMMER & WATCH NEXT TIME...YOU WASTED YOUR, BET & MY TIME!!!!



2) JAY Z & the BET official that ok-ed it-YES HE MADE the low list! I understand you have like all this money & everything. Yes you are a great rapper- but dang~ "Thou without sin, cast the 1st stone!" I understand that Chris Brown did do wrong...he admits & is truly sorry for it. If Rhainnia can 4give him (lets keep in mind she was the victim) you should too. You have BEYONCE'~ If he did not put his hand on her...you need to stay out of it....you lost cool points for that one. Everyone has done things in there life that is not approved my society ( Not all your lyrics are rated G heck even PG-13). However CB is trying. It bad because the Jackson Family REQUESTED that Chris Brown PERFORM! In my opinion I would've rather seen C.B. Performance that JAY-Z. ----- THE BET OFFICAL THAT OK-ED the Sh*T---Are you for real? The KING OF POP, ROCK, HIP-HOP, R&B, COUNTRY, ALMOST EVERY TYPE OF MUSIC THAT EXIST FAMILY REQUESTED THAT CHRIS BROWN PERFORM! You needed a BACKBONE & JAY-Z to go Sit DOWN! I know your are wishing you wouldve told him NO now!!!!



3) Tyra Banks--- I love you girl but you def made the low list. I know you dont always have to be dressed up in heelz but you look for lack of better words-unprepared for the awards show. I am glad you got some straight, natural color hair, but whom ever you got to do it---don't let them do it again. They could've flat iron or bump it! Everyone else was soooo FLY~ I was disappointed....



4) Don C & Who ever booked him~ It comes a time in life where you just need to relax & watch the show- Don C this was one of those times...I fell asleep listening to him talk. I do not even know what he was talking about half the time! I felt like I was in school listening to one of my boring professors give a lecture. Heck I have had more excited lectures in biology! He is sooooooo MONOTONE & Boring! & WHOEVER BOOKED HIM~ I can only imagne how the phone call must've went.....you must've been the same person who ok-ed Jay-Z



5) THE C.E.O. of BET- I almost forgot about you~ If DON C was not enough here you come! I can't even make a long comment about you because Me & TREY feel asleep in the early part of your SPEECH! I don't even know if it was long or not.....

I recorded it just to watch it again & LAUGH!!!!

This Thing called LOVE

So yesterday me & my Honey get into this big arugment (well I was agruing he was lookin @ his Phone) about him not wantin to go have dinner with me and my other family (I'm apart of a Sorority). Yes, I know that he is not very social, but I thought because he says he LOVES me;he would do it. Well I was talkin to my bestie & tellin her all the things that have been going on in my life. When we get off the phone, he comes in and was like, "Why didn't you tell me?" Why should I have to tell you if somethin is wrong~ you should know?" I told him it was because I did not think he would care. Well~ He never said he was sorry but he change the tone in his voice. He became very understanding & caring.

He asked what time was I coming back so dinner could be ready...he told me to not rush but enjoy myself...

& as I laid next to him trying to get myself together he does the most unselfish thing a man could do for a woman~ he say's:

" Look I gonna give you my last dollar. Wait-I found some change. Here babe you have have at all"

After all the bad news I had heard, & the agrument we had~ This MAN gave me his last....

Now I have been in love before~ But that was just a different level of love. In the time of a recession, he gave me his last EVERYTHING. It made me realize that not everything is worth fighting about. It also made me realize that he is truly in love with me.