Why is that when you find someone good, the as me & my friends like to call it “Ain’t SH*? Negr0’s” wanna POP back in. Me & Pookie have been dating for goin on 3 months (I know it feel longer) & I have Ran out of fingers & toes on how many ex boyfriends, boo’s etc… have call me. They all come wit the same lines “How you been? I’ve been thinkin about you. How’s your family?” Once I told them I have a boyfriend & we’re madly in love, they come with the same line “Well you know, I wanted to be with you. I thought we had something”.

In the back of my mind I’m thinkin~ your right WE HAD SOMETHING. HAD is a PAST TENSE VERB! If I meant that much to you, you would HAD stepped up & BEEN a MAN THEN. I tell you…some dudes just don’t get it.

So I came up wit some tip’s for the females in the World:
REASON’S you SHOULDN’T LEAVE YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND FOR THE EX’S!

1) "He’s an EX for a reason"-Ladies please do not get caught up in the return of the ex or in some cases ex’s. There an ex for a reason. Apparently they hurt you in some kinda of way. You really want to open that old sore again? If you broke it off, remember that reason, was he not there enough? Did he cheat on you? If he broke it off~ think about all the time it took you to get over it…Do you wanna go through that again?

2) "You deserve better"- Let’s be for real. There are plenty of GREAT men. Sometime you just have to be by yourself & one will come. Don’t settle for less. If he treated you wrong, then that’s on him

3) “What goes around, comes around”- If he is contacting you after all this time, it probably becuz whatever he has done to you, someone else did to him. Don’t let it happen to you again.

4) “Don’t Get Diddy”- Don’t fall for him again. They talk a good game. Now probably about 10% of them are truly sincere. They really want to change.

5) "Why mess up your Happy Home"- This is prehaps the most important tip of all. In no shape or form do I approve stayin wit some1 if your not happy. BUT, if your happy don't leave him. I have learn that when your at your happinest is when other's try to pull you down. I just think about all the time when I really needed someone & my Pookie was there. I will not go backwards.